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UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
West Lafayette, Indiana


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The Lighted Chalice
UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
Lafayette, Indiana ~ ~ May 19, 2005

Worship Schedule
Sunday Service at 10:30 a.m.
Childcare Available


 

MAY 22

RE Sunday
Senior High Recognition
Straub Grandchildren Dedication
Intergenerational
Speakers: Rev. Hilary Krivchenia,
Sarah Boulac, Michele Tomarelli
Pianist: Kaye McSpadden
Sound: Keith Brown

Light Potluck & Congregational Workshop Follow
 

 

 

May 29

“War and Peace: Rhyme,Rhythm, and Reason”
Dufair Infant Dedication
Speaker: Rev. Hilary Krivchenia
Pianist: JoAnn Mullen
Sound: Sharon McKnight
 

 

 

June 5

“Go Tell It on the Mountain”
Speaker: Rev. Hilary Krivchenia
Volunteer Recognition, Flower Communion
Pianist: Lisa Drake
Sound: Chap Flack
 

 

 

Next newsletter deadline:

Sunday, May 29, 2005   NOON
This issue was prepared by Nancy Patchen

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Congregational Self Assessment Workshop & Light Potluck

Sunday, May 22,  noon – 3 p.m.

                The response to the Congregational Self Assessment was exceptional - well over 100 self assessments were returned!   The results have been tabulated and a summary has been prepared.  The summary is included in this issue of the Lighted Chalice.  If you wish to read the complete results, with all comments included, copies are available: 

·  Ask any member of the Congregational Self Assessment Team (see below)

·  Request a copy to be emailed to you from the church secretary: uuc@uulafayette.org

·  Request that a copy be mailed to you by the church secretary: 742-0460

 

                Now, we begin Step Two: a Congregational Self Assessment Workshop, from noon until 3 p.m. upstairs at church where small Focus Groups can discuss more fully the topics that have emerged from the responses that were given to self assessment questions.  Those topics are: 

 

·  Enhancing Sunday Service

·  Streamlining Church Governance

·  Presenting Ourselves to the Town: Inventing Social Outreach

·  Making Connections  . . . . .   Adult Religious Education, Small Groups, Social Actions

 

During the afternoon, you will have the opportunity to participate in two of the Focus Groups.  It is hoped that, as a result of the Focus Group discussions, tangible ideas for moving into the future will be suggested. 

Please plan to attend; we need compassionate and constructive discussion among all of us as we plan the future of our congregation. The participation of each and every one of you is vital if we are to help the congregation achieve the goals we want to reach.  Let’s work together to take responsibility for the continuing creation of our church community.

Immediately following the service, we will have a potluck light lunch.   Please bring food to share that is easy to hold as we will not be seated at tables.  Some favorites at our recent light/lunch included:  fruit, veggies and dip, crackers and cheese, pretzels, pita and hummus, and small sandwiches.

 

Congregational Self Assessment Team,

Dianna Poindexter, Chair

Ruth Ann Ferris, Amy French, Liz Grauerholz, Herschel Lewis, Joan Marshal, Ernest McDaniel, Rev. Hilary Krivchenia

 


 

 

Clean Out Those Closets!

                Mark your calendars for our clothing collection Saturday, June 11 in the church parking lot.

                Goodwill gives us a $5 voucher for each bag of clothing donated. These vouchers are given to LUM, Cary Home, and the Women’s Shelter to be distributed.

                Last year we were successful in collecting a few slightly used men’s and women’s business clothing on hangers and covered to be distributed to individuals needing clothing for interviews, funerals, etc.

                Also keep in mind that Tippecanoe County Child Care can use dress up clothes or jewelry when you are sorting your give away clothing.

                                                —Sue Robinson


 


                                                                                               

This Saturday is the Big Sale!
 

             The annual UU Rummage Sale will be held May 21, 8 a.m.-3 p.m. upstairs at the church. Please bring your rummage donations on Friday between noon and 8 p.m.
 

             Volunteers are needed to set up tables Thursday evening, receive and price items Friday, wait on customers Saturday and clean up afterwards.
 

             To help, call Beth Misner.         


                            


 

 

Invitation to May 24 Discussion at Meditation Group/Mindfulness Practice Meeting

The Meditation Group/Mindfulness Practice Group of the UU Church of Lafayette invites you to discuss how we can improve our spiritual practice.

Our group has been ongoing now for two-and-a-half years. We remain a core group of 4-8 people. We chose our time and structure based on the original group and have not changed much since.
Perhaps our time of meeting is not convenient for you? Perhaps we are not offering what you seek in your meditation practice?

Here is what we hope to provide:
--a regular meeting time to practice meditation/mindfulness within the context of our congregation
--a supportive environment for your practice
--wisdom/readings for your ongoing practice
--openness to many different styles/schools meditation (our practice is to sit for about 20 minutes at each meeting).

Here is what we probably can’t offer:
--a teacher. There are many schools and ways of meditation. While we encourage people to seek instruction according to their desires and spiritual path, what we practice is fairly broad and reflects the experience of those sitting.

Come share with us your thoughts and ideas about the meditation/mindfulness practice group. We will meet Tues. May 24th from 5:30 to 7:00 PM. We will do some meditation before our discussion.
We will also host a meeting after the service of Sunday, May 29th (12:00-12:30) for the same purpose. If you can’t join us either time, please let us know your interests and desires for this practice within our congregation.

—Mark Krivchenia

 




UU Book Club

Enjoy a book this summer and share the experience with friends! New members are welcome anytime.

7 pm, Monday, June 13    Snow Falling on Cedars by David Guterson

7 pm, Monday, July 11  One Thousand White Women by Jim Fergus

7 pm, Monday, August 8     Julie and the Dream Maker by P.J. Fischer

The Book Group meets the 2nd Monday of every month at Borders Bookshop in Wabash Landing in the lounge area where it joins with Panera’s.

For more information contact Dagmar Murray.

 





The All Church Picnic ... a community time for all ages to enjoy food, play, and conversation ... will be held Sunday, June 5, at the River Shelter at Fort Ouiatenon.

Hot dogs and drinks will be provided. There is a large grill available. Please bring a covered dish, vegetables, or dessert to share and your own place settings.

Activities include canoeing and playing outdoor games and with pets. Please bring outdoor game equipment for softball, volleyball, Frisbee, etc., for group fun.


—Lynn Richardson
                                                                                                         

 


CARING CANS SUNDAY

THE FIRST SUNDAY

OF JUNE

BRING ITEMS FOR LUM

COFFEE, SUGAR, SALT AND PEPPER, SOCKS, COMBS, PAPER TOWELS

JUNE 5TH

COLLECTION UPSTAIRS AS THE CHILDREN LEAVE FOR RE CLASSES

THE UU SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY COMMITTEE

THANKS YOU!

 


 


Thank You from St. John’s Food Pantry

 

             Jim Hess and Jackie Paar recently sent a note on behalf of the food pantry and its clients thanking our church for the generous food donation. “You have assisted in helping many families,” they wrote.

    


 

Religious Education Happenings

RE Co- Directors Sarah Boulac and Michele Tomarelli
RE Committee Co-Chairs: Beth Misner, Cheryl Fowler

 

A handful of Sundays every year are what we call Intergenerational Services. This means that we welcome our children who normally go downstairs to remain upstairs for the service. (Our nursery stays open and our preschool class is held as usual.) Much work always goes into planning these services as worship leaders seek to create an experience that appeals not only to the various ages in the congregation, but also to the various aspects of ourselves. Various elements including skits, stories, interactive pieces, music, and meditation are carefully crafted, coming together to offer a worship service that contains seeds of inspiration and reflection.

For our children who normally go downstairs to Religious Education classes, it might feel like a challenge to sit through a whole worship service, listening to what is being spoken, and being attentive to how their spirits respond. But, it is an opportunity to nurture families in a way that is different from the usual; a way for children, usually segregated, to come together with parents and friends and worship together.

Our principles state that we believe in the inherent worth and dignity of every person, in acting with justice, equity and compassion in all we do, and that we accept one another, encouraging spiritual growth in our congregations. Parents, please talk to your children and remind them that one way we can live these principles is to show our respect to worship leaders, fellow congregants, and ourselves by having quiet hands, voices, feet and bodies during intergenerational services. By doing this, we are
acting in a worshipful, reverent way that allows us to be open to hearing the message of the service and ensures that we are not disrupting the experience of those around us.

On May 22nd, we have an Intergenerational Service coming up. It is “RE Sunday” when our classes share what they have been learning this year. This will be a great opportunity to show our support and encouragement to fellow RE students in other classes by focusing on what each group has to offer. Please join us on this day with your body, mind, and spirit and be open to experiencing this special worship service!

                               ~Sarah



Upcoming Events

• RE Sunday is May 22nd! During this intergenerational service, classes will share what they have learned this summer with the congregation. Please join us for the special event!
• Our summer RE classes will begin on June 5th. If you are interested in teaching RE, write you name on the list on the green poster on the RE bulletin board downstairs, or speak to Sarah Boulac or Michele Tomarelli, Co-DREs.

Wanted: Nursery Assistants

Do you enjoy and have experience working with young children? Are you in ninth grade or older? Looking for a way to serve our congregation
and make money at the same time? We are looking for individuals to provide care for the youngest of our congregation in the Nursery on Sunday mornings. Individuals in this role are needed beginning in the fall, and some Sundays over the summer. If you are interested in applying, please contact Sarah Boulac.



Wanted: Co-Nursery Supervisor

The RE Committee is seeking an adult to share our Nursery Supervisor position to begin in early summer. This role, shared with our current nursery supervisor, involves supervising the Nursery on Sunday mornings and occasional mid-week work. If you are interested in applying, please contact Sarah Boulac to see a copy of the job description.

 

                                                                                                                                                              


 

Sunday Morning Forum

The Sunday Morning Forum meets at 9 a.m. in the Red Cross Building across the parking lot from the church. Everyone is welcome! Childcare is provided.                       


 

Current Forum Programs:


Thirty-five people enjoyed last Sundays’ program, "What Music Means to Me" with Edwin Layer, Eric Thiel, Roy Barnhart and Sharon McKnight demonstrating the satisfaction deriving from the story-telling and poetry aspects of songs, the way music is put together, and the inner satisfaction of making music.

May 22. "Conveying Critical Thinking in a Civil and Respectful Manner."
Dianna Poindexter and members of the Congregational Survey Committee. Chap Flack recently wrote an essay suggesting that conveying critical thinking during discussion is not equivalent to criticizing others, indeed that "celebration is in order whenever we honestly and civilly identify a real disagreement." Exploring this topic further seems timely as the Congregational Survey Committee opens discussion on Sunday afternoon of the results of our self-study. Chap will be on hand at Forum to contribute to the discussion.
 


As we explore our spiritual sensitivity and development, we plumb the depth of thoughtful others. In the next few weeks we will listen and discuss the ideas of three prominent local thinkers: a minister/master gardener, a philosopher and an economist.
 


May 29 "Is There Delight in Your Faith? If not, Why Not?"
Dr. Don Nead. This program stems from a question asked by Marty Becker in a Forum planning meeting: "Where is the joy in our religion?" Dr. Nead is uniquely suited to address such a question. His initial work was at the McCormick Theological Seminary in Chicago and his Doctor of Divinity is from the Christian Theological Seminary in Indianapolis. In additional to biblical scholarship, Don finds joy as an active master gardener and as a fundraiser for the Bach Chorale.
 

June 5 "Can God be Free?" William Rowe, Ph.D
 


June 12 "Do Economics and Morality Mix? A Perennial Subject."   
 George Horwich, Ph.D.
 


                          - 
Ernest McDaniel and John Wilms

 


 

Minister’s Muse  

 

 In the other room my daughter, Chava, is sharing in an excited voice, about the wild birds that she saw while canoeing down Sugar Creek with some folks from our Outdoor Group and a few other friends. She hasn’t stopped being excited since she returned. She canoed 30 miles in the Indiana wilderness and saw eagles and herons, snakes, and had the companionship of wise and caring grownups. Her face is ruddy and she is tired but still has this deep well of energy. Energy that I think you only get from nature. I am so grateful that she had this opportunity – yes it rained some, yes, it was chilly at times. But it was real and she was plugged into the real world and not the virtual world of television, computers, or movies. It is what our children and young people really need.

The timing was remarkable. Just this week I shared a lunch meeting with Patty Jischke, a few members of the Purdue staff, local environmental activists (including Rae Schnapp) and we heard about a dream that Patty has to begin a program to help young people to connect with the deep, renewing presence of nature, to reconnect with the sacred aspect of the natural world, of which we are a part. She wants to get people onto the Wabash, to become aware of the utopias that have formed along its banks, to explore the spiritual lives of the people who have lived along the Wabash River for thousands of years and into the present. And her purpose seems to be to help young people connect with just that quality of living spirit that my daughter found this weekend.

Over lunch our small group brainstormed and came up with the seeds of a strong idea – building on the vision of Patty – who is a ball of energy. We all came away with tasks small and large and a shared sense that something important for all of Indiana was taking shape.
I remember standing in line a few years ago to buy the fifth Harry Potter book – waiting in line late at night – it was exciting and I loved that a book was stimulating all this interest among young people. And now I want to see people waiting in line to take a journey down a unique river, to canoe, to share their spiritual lives, to learn from nature and from one another. I wonder what it would take for people to become as excited about a river as a book, as excited about their interior lives and the interior lives of others.

Does it take wizards and spells and all the wonderful imaginary things that make up Harry Potter’s world or can the simple, miraculous materials of our own world – this pretty planet and our own lives, stir the hearts and minds of young people? I think that, as Unitarian Universalists we have a strong sense of our own spiritual lives that is deeply grounded in nature – in the natural sciences and what Emerson called “the miracle of the blowing clover”. We seem particularly suited to be part of, to help lead a project to reconnect people of various faiths and no faith at all – with the sacred ground upon which all people live and share a fate together.

I am looking forward to the development of this idea, this project, to seeing where it takes us and our children, to see where it leads Indiana, and if it leads new people to Indiana to explore the beauty that we know is here. It seems as though we can open the newspaper and see the bad news every day – but we can look at our own lives and into our own community and see that, at the same time, there is deep, good news unfolding at every moment.
 

                                                            —Hilary


 

          

Lighted Chalice
Unitarian Universalist Church
17 S. 7th Street
Lafayette IN 47901-1637

The office is open Monday through Friday 9:00-1:00.

E-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Home page:  http://www.uulafayette.org
Publication: Every other Thursday
Submission deadline: Preceding Sunday at noon

Send to: lightedchalice@yahoo.com

 

Minister: Rev. Hilary Landau Krivchenia
Phone: 742-0460;
minister@uulafayette.org 

To meet with Rev. Krivchenia, call the office, email her at b.uurevhilaryk@verizon.net, or call her home office 463-6201.

Religious Education:

Michelle Tomarelli
Office hours:  10:00 to 2:00 T-Th
Phone:  497-7792 (h) or 412-6196 (c)
Email:  tomarelli@gmail.com.

 

Sarah Boulac
Office hours are Tuesdays and Thursdays. 
Phone: 414-2342
Email:  sboulac@gmail.com

 

Secretary: Kathy Louks
Phone: 742-0460, e-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Office hours: 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Monday to Friday 

Board Chair: Noemi Ybarra         Phone: 742-0460 
 

Editors:

Kaye McSpadden, Phone: 743-3634, kaye7m@aol.com

Nancy Patchen, Phone: 497-1259, nhmp@verizon.net

Lynn Holland, Phone: 583-2703,  lholland@nursing.purdue.edu  

Webspinner: Dianna Poindexter,dianna1@wildmail.com  

 

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