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UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
West Lafayette, Indiana


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The Lighted Chalice
UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
Lafayette, Indiana ~ ~ October 20, 2005

Worship Schedule
Sunday Service at 10:30 a.m.
Childcare Available

 

October 23

“Sacred Scriptures:

An Exploration of Interpretation of Text”
 

Speaker: Rev. Hilary Krivchenia

Worship Associate: Elizabeth Sternke

Pianist: Lisa Drake

Sound: Sharon McKnight
 

 


 

October 30

“All Souls”
 

Speaker: Rev. Hilary Krivchenia

Worship Leader: Jim Hermiller

Pianist: Jo Ann Mullen

Sound: Kevin Sondgeroth


 

 

 

Wednesday, November 2

7 p.m. “Day of the Dead” Service

 

All Ages Attendance and Participation

Read Article 

 

 

 

November 6
 

Speaker: Meadville-Lombard School Student

Worship Associate: Charles Coley

Pianist: Kaye McSpadden

Sound: Eric Thiel

 

 

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This issue was prepared by Nancy Patchen


BoaBoard Meeting Highlights — September & October

 

·         DiscDiscussed options for financing tuckpointing needed for building

·         Approved proposal for new renter/caretakers of Union Street property

·          Pianist search underway; committee chaired by Barny Dunning

·          3rd member of Finance Comm. is John Finley

·          Date set for next congregational meeting: Dec.11

·          Will review and consider for adoption a  policy like the West Lafayette Human                               Relations Commission Complaint Handling Flow

·         Approved request from Endowment Board to sell stocks to consolidate funds. 

·         Approved formation of an internal committee to perform financial audit

    

             Minutes of recent UU Board of Trustees meetings are now available online at https://uufolks.org/groups/board/minutes/.

 

 The September Church Mouse Award goes to...

            Patty Wood for all the things she does for our church.  Patty has been actively involved in the church for many years and in countless  ways.  Most recently she created a beautiful quilt with UU's at the  retreat and is raffling it off as a fundraiser.  She has also been very  busy managing the maintenance of our building. We greatly appreciate all  Patty does

      ~ Dagmar Murray, Board Secretary 

 


 

According to the Bylaws ...

                An ad hoc committee on revising the by-laws will plan to hold its first meeting in November.  If anyone is interested in serving on that committee or anyone has any thoughts or input for by-law revision, please forward them to me, as the acting chair of the committee.  The committee members will be announced so they too can be identified as sources for the congregation to forward any questions or concerns.

                                                                ~ Robin Poindexter

 


                                                               

Comments and Concerns of Congregants

                In August, the Board of Trustees added a new item to the agenda of the monthly meetings.  Comments and concerns that have been shared with individual board members are shared with the entire board during our "Comments and Concerns of Congregants".  During thoughtful discussion of  the comment or concern,  the board will determine what action needs to be

 taken.   A board member will then respond to the person, sharing the results of this discussion.        

      We encourage members and friends to share comments and concerns with the board.  Contact any board member, or come to a meeting.  Monthly board meetings are held the second Tuesday of each month at 6:30 in the sanctuary.   All members and friends are invited to attend.

                                                ~ Dianna Poindexter,  Board Co Chair
 


 

2005 UUC Holiday Art Sale!!

                Mark your calendars for Dec. 2nd-3rd for the Holiday Art Sale, our biggest fundraiser and community event to support local art. As in past it will be the same weekend as the Dickens of a Christmas celebration in downtown Lafayette on Dec.3rd.

                Please be thinking about volunteer activities you would like to help with. This is an ALL church effort for friends and members of the UUC and is a wonderful opportunity to connect with each other and the larger local community.

                Various jobs include helping in Trudi’s café, shopkeeper upstairs with the art, cashier, and the ever fun set-up and clean-up jobs!

                If interested in volunteering, please contact Jennifer Comenetti-Craig, or Lisa Pantea

 

 


 

 

 

Nominating Committee Rolls Up Its Sleeves

 

    The 2005 Nominating Committee has begun its work of looking for candidates to fill key leadership positions next year. We will be talking with many of you during the coming months to learn of your interests and skills. In the meantime, if you know someone who would be an especially strong candidate for one of these positions, please let us know! The members of the Nominating Committee are: Kaye McSpadden , Noemi Ybarra, Nancy Patchen, and Lisa Pantea.

      


 

 

From the Social Responsibility Committee     

 

   

As the winter months approach, please remember that the Women’s Shelter is always in need of blankets, towels, and “unopened” over-the-counter medicine (for both adults and children). The drop off box is in the downstairs hallway near the kitchen. Thank you for your ongoing support of the Domestic Violence Intervention and Prevention Program.

 

                                                                                   ~Jean Tyner

 

 

             The Church has received several notes of warm thanks and appreciation from Lafayette Urban Ministry (LUM) for our:

  ~ contribution of $157.26 toward 2004 Jubilee Christmas Program

  ~ donation of Goodwill clothing vouchers from our summer clothing drive

  ~ donation of socks, powder, combs, soaps, and shampoos for     Homeless Shelter guests

  ~ generous donations to St. John’s/LUM Food Pantry that have helped many  families.

                                         

   ~ Sue Robinson, Chair

 


Comfort Toys

      A big stuffed bear hug to all who brought stuffed animals to give to the little ones when they are removed from their home for abuse or neglect. We collected 64 stuffed animals; 64 little ones will feel your care and  warmth. Thank you!

 ~ Lynn Richardson , Chair Social Action Child and Family  Advocacy    Subcommittee

 


 

“Singing the Journey” on the way!

 

                Thanks to everyone who made a donation for the new hymnal supplement, “Singing the Journey.” Last week we were close enough to our goal to go ahead and place the order. Copies should be arriving soon. We will be planning a special celebration and dedication of the new books in an upcoming Sunday service. Stay tuned! (So to speak.)

More donations received:

In honor of all the church pianists over the years — Kaye McSpadden (keyboard ed.)

In memory of Deborah Brown — Keith Brown (3)

A gift of Cindy Gerlach & Gary Mueller and Alison, Madeleine & Sylvia  (1)

 


 


NEW MURAL ON SOUTH WALL OF SANCTUARY

            Check it out.  See the calendar display of pledges already received.  In our Stewardship Workshop with UUA Consultant Jerry King on Oct 2, we learned  that it will take $511.72 per day per member to keep the doors of the church open and make our program dreams become reality.  Certainly not everyone can do this, but Jerry urged that we try to give this amount over and above our usual pledge. That is paying to keep us going for one additional day.  Every pledge, large or small, is valued, including pledges of volunteer time in all areas of our church life.

   The wall chart shows that we have received enough pledges to pay for our proposed programs until September of 2006.  What happens then?  Well, it depends now on the generosity of those who have not yet made their pledge and perhaps an additional pledge from those who have already pledged.   Our world has been devastated by costly wars, horrendous storms and other unbelievable acts of nature and many have given generously to help out with these disasters, but keeping the doors of a liberal church open in this community is important. So please give as much as you can. 

HOW TO PLEDGE:  Attend a Sunday worship service during the month of October and pick up your pledge card on the back table of the sanctuary.  Your pledge card will remind you of how much you pledged last year.  Please consider increasing your pledge by paying for one additional day ($511.72).  There will be time at the end of the service to financially covenant with others in the congregation, by coming forward to place your pledge in the “Catch the Dream” net.  One hundred and three individuals have already pledged in this meaningful manner. If you have never pledged, and would like to, there will be a person from the Stewardship committee at the back table to talk with you.

   If you cannot attend a service, a member of the Stewardship team will call you to set up a time for conversation about our church and what it means to you.

  AND THEN: Plan to attend the All Church Potluck on Sunday, November 6. (See box below)

                                        ~Della Willmann for Stewardship Committee


 

WHAT:   “THANKS (for) GIVING”   Potluck Lunch

 

WHY: to express our appreciation as a congregation for the generous support            of the programs of the church

WHEN:   Nov. 6, immediately after church. 

 

WHAT ELSE??  -  To announce the amount of pledges received and complete the Calendar mural on the Sanctuary wall.

 


 

Special Evening Service, Wed., Nov. 2, 7 pm      
 

Day of the Dead — Dia de los Muertos

 

Worship and Music has moved this service from Sunday morning so that we can feel the comfort and challenge of evening as we bring together our memories of loved ones.
 

There will be Offrendas, or tables, for the sharing of photographs of loved ones. We will share Pan de Muerto, bread for the dead. Children will join us for parts of the service and celebrate the holiday downstairs in an intergenerational setting. Music by pianist Kaye McSpadden and sharing will make this a healing service.
 

                             


 

 

Film Showing: “Sacred Choices and Abortion: 10 New Things to Think About”

 

          Sunday evening, Oct. 23

          7:00-8:30 pm in the sanctuary

          Discussion, light refreshments
 

Sponsored by the UU Social Action Committee

          This event is an opportunity to discuss the proposal by the Social Action Committee for our congregation to join the Indiana Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice. This proposal is an “Action Following a Congregational Study (leading to a full congregational vote)” as defined in the congregation’s new Outreach Policy. The new Outreach Policy can be found in the congregation’s Annual Report. Some copies are available on the back table of the sanctuary, or see the church secretary.
 

          For more information: Kaye McSpadden

 

 


 

 

From the Worship&Music Committee
 

The congregation enjoyed hearing Spiritual Journeys in September from Mark French and Jo Ann Mullen. If you are interested in sharing your Spiritual Journey on Nov. 27, 2005, or Jan. 8, 2006,please contact a member of the committee (Bev Seese, Elizabeth Sternke, Charles Coley, or Jim Hermiller).

 

W&M has changed its meetings to the third Thursday of the month at 6 p.m., beginning Oct. 20.

 

W&M will hold its retreat on Saturday, Oct. 29, 9 a.m.-2 p.m.

 

                                                                 ~ Bev Seese

  



Congregational Self Assessment Final Report

 

Copies of the final report will be on the table at the back of the sanctuary Sunday, Oct.23.  If you do not find an envelope with your name, please request a copy from the church secretary.           
 

Many thanks to all members and friends who participated, and a special "Thank You!" to the Congregational Self Assessment Team (CSAT)!

 

                                    ~Dianna Poindexter, Chair CSAT

 


 

 

UU Book Group

 

            7 pm, Nov. 14: The Alchemist by Paul Coelho

            7 pm, Dec. 12, The Birth of Venus by Sara Dunant

 

The UU Book Group meets  at Borders Book Store in Wabash Landing in the lounge area where it joins with Panera’s.  All are welcome to join us for discussions of books selected by participants. 

 

For more information contact Dagmar Murray

 


 

Religious Education Happenings

 

RE Co- Directors Sarah Boulac and Michele Tomarelli

 

A few weeks ago, some of the youth stated their dreams for the church during the intergenerational portion of the service.  As October draws to a close, you will be hearing more about the hopes and dreams they hold for our church.  In our Religious Education classes, we have begun to talk about what it takes to run a church and what “stewardship” means.  A steward is a caregiver, someone who shares their time, talents, and treasure (often in the form of money) with others. 
 

            In a conversation with one of the members of our very own Stewardship Committee, I learned of an interesting practice some families choose to incorporate.  Many parents give an allowance and with this idea, kids will not only learn stewardship, but also to be responsible with their money.  Instead of handing over the allotted amount, talk with your kids about the rule of thirds.  One third of their allowance is for them to use as they wish, one third is to be donated, and another third to be saved. 
 

            Money and finances are often taboo subjects, but our children will learn from us what to do with this responsibility whether it is out in the open or not!  Being open will ensure we are teaching them what we want them to know!  Having conversations about money, using money wisely, and encouraging children to be responsible by saving and to be generous by giving will be lessons that will serve them well throughout their lives. 
 

            In our RE Classes we will be taking up a weekly offering, just as the adults to upstairs, to help teach the children and youth that it takes lots of support to keep our church going.  This will be an opportunity for them to contribute and make a difference - to be stewards of our congregation.  And as stewards they will help to make their dreams for our church and our community become reality.

                                                      ~ Sarah

 


     

Upcoming Events/Announcements

 

·     Day of the Dead – This celebration of life, honoring those who have died will be a special evening service on November 2nd at 7pm.  Families are invited to come with pictures of loved ones who have died.  We will begin and end as an intergenerational group, with the children and youth having a special activity during the middle of the service. 

·     Thanksgiving Music Service – On November 20th, we will come together and give thanks through music!  We are looking for children and youth who would like to share their music with us on this day.  Please contact Sarah Boulac or Michele Tomarelli if you are interested.

·     Abuse Awareness Training – This training is required of all of our RE Teachers.  If you have not yet attended a training, you will be receiving a letter with the agenda for the afternoon.  All other persons interested in learning more are welcome to attend on November 20th as 12pm in the sanctuary.

·     November 13th – Fire Drill in RE.

·           December 18th – Christmas Pageant

                    

Teacher Schedule         

                                                 October 23                 October 30

Preschool Teacher                    A. Dooley                    C. Frye

Kind. – 1st Grade                     C. Reynolds                 C. Reynolds

2nd – 4th Grade                         J. Dufair                      J. Dufair

 

                              


Sunday Morning Forum

The Sunday Morning Forum meets at 9 a.m. in the Red Cross Building across the parking lot from the church. Everyone is welcome! Childcare is provided.         
                  

October 23.  “Win-Win Ecology: How the Earth's Species Can Survive In the Midst of Human Enterprise.” Edwin Layer.

 

In this book, Michael L. Rosenzweig, Professor of Ecology and Evolutional Biology, University of Arizona, approaches the subject with three types of Conservation Ecology:

            -Reservation ecology: save the earth’s natural habitats, today's dominant strategy of conservation

            -Restoration ecology: tries to return some developed places to a more natural status

            -Reconciliation ecology: seeks environmentally sound ways for us to continue to use the land for our own benefit.

 

 "The careful foot can walk anywhere,” says Professor Rosenzweig as he explains his ideas on Species-Area Relationships

 

 

October 30.  “China's Development through American Eyes.” Kim Harden, Project Manager, Ivy Tech State College.  At one time, a trip to China was thought of as a journey back through ancient times.  Now, it may be a glimpse of the future. Recently returned from six months in China with her daughter Kalina, Kim will share slides, stories and observations about this rapidly changing country.

                                                                                    ~Ernest McDaniel

                                                                                     


Minister’s Muse

 

The richness of the autumn and winter season is astounding in our congregation. We are able to reflect deeply on the message of the Jewish High Holy Days – a message that is universal – that of turning to those we know and making amends as well as thinking about how we want to grow and change for the upcoming year.  We celebrate the Day of the Dead, which offers us a way to mourn and to celebrate the lives of those we have loved but who have died.  It is a powerful service in which we get to sit together and with our memories and to feast on special bread and share this most human part of our selves – mortality.  We have a strong connection with issues of social justice and that offers us a chance to reflect upon our ties to the United Nations and to offer UNICEF boxes to our children.  And then later we share our Welcome Table by taking home Guest at your Table boxes to raise money for the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee and we sing out names as Sharon McKnight plays her guitar so that we remember that the world sits at our table at every meal – whether we see their faces or not.

            And that does not count the delights of Thanksgiving – with our all music service (which I hope that you are planning on either offering some piece of music or of convincing a meek but talented friend to make that offering (please contact Beverley Seese).  It does not count the festivity of the Christmas Pageant and the warm night magic of Christmas Eve. And that does not count the aesthetic feast of the Art Fair in early December in which we celebrate the fabulous creativity of the human hand and eye.  It does not count our collections for the Women’s Shelter nor our active participation in the LUM Christmas Jubilee.

It’s a good time to celebrate that we are many paths traveling together. It doesn’t mean that we celebrate everything all the time – but that we look for the deepest resonances to which we feel kinship and we find our common ground and celebrate that.  It does not mean that we are entitled to celebrate just anyone’s holiday in any way that we choose – but rather that we gather hoping to more deeply understand other people and one another by our careful and respectful practice.

            It is a good time of year to set aside a little more time for church – for worship, for study, for work, for social gathering – because this community – this church community is a feast we make together.  If you set aside a little more time I think that you will find that your heart will be stretched, your mind will be challenged and your daily life will be greatly enriched.

            What is it to be Unitarian Universalist?  It is not only to revel in the questions and engage in the search it is also to stop and celebrate the discoveries on the way, to raise new generations to continue this journey of discovery, and to share our bounty with the world.

            What profound richness!

                                                             --Hilary


 

          

Lighted Chalice
Unitarian Universalist Church
17 S. 7th Street
Lafayette IN 47901-1637
E-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Home page:  http://www.uulafayette.org
Publication: Every other Thursday
Submission deadline: Preceding Sunday at noon

Send to: lightedchalice@yahoo.com

 

Minister: Rev. Hilary Landau Krivchenia
Phone: 742-0460;
minister@uulafayette.org 

Office hours: 

Tuesday 9 a.m.-noon
Thursday Noon-4 p.m.   
Also by appointment
 

Religious Education : Sarah Boulac
Phone: 742-0460 or 414-2432

Office hours: 10 a.m. - 2 p.m Tuesday & Thursday 

Secretary: Karin Bergman
Phone: 742-0460, e-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Office hours: 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Monday to Friday 

Board Co Chairs: Robin & Dianna Poindexter  Phone: 742-0460 

Editors:

Kaye McSpadden, Phone: 743-3634, kaye7m@aol.com

Nancy Patchen, Phone: 497-1259, nhmp@verizon.net

Lynn Holland, Phone: 583-2703,  holland@nursing.purdue.edu  

Webspinner: Dianna Poindexter,dianna1@wildmail.com  

 

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