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UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
West Lafayette, Indiana


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The Lighted Chalice
UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
Lafayette, Indiana ~ ~ January 26, 2006

Worship Schedule
Sunday Service at 10:30 a.m.
Childcare Available

 

Sunday, January 29

Guest speaker: Richard Venus

Worship Associate: Beverly Seese

Pianist: Richard Maddux

Sanctuary Preparation: Nina Kirkpatrick

 

 

 

Sunday, February 5

Guest speaker: Nana Kratovic

Worship Associate: Jim Hermiller

Pianist: Richard Maddux

Sanctuary Preparation: Nina Kirkpatrick

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

 

 

Sunday, February 12

Guest speaker: Andy Buckser

“Concerning Ritual”

Worship Associate: Elizabeth Sternke

Pianist: JoAnn Mullen

 

 

Sunday, February 19

Guest speaker: Beverly Seese

Intergenerational Service

“Anyone Can Make A Difference”

Martha Gipson and Addie McKnight in “Aunt Isabel Tells a Good One”

 

 

Next Newsletter  Deadline:
Sunday, February 5: Noon

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This issue was prepared by Lynn Holland


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Finance Committee Update

Due to larger than budgeted expenses for utilities, insurance, and secretarial hours, a budgeted deficit to cover increases in minister and DRE cost of living, and  less than expected pledge payments in 2005, we ended 2005 approximately $6000 in the red. 

While it is typical for there to be several thousand dollars of the previous year’s pledges paid early the following year, this deficit is troubling given our already tight 2006 budget. 

As a result, the Finance Committee is reassessing the 2006 budget and will propose for discussion various scenarios to reduce our 2006 expenses at the February Board meeting.

If interested and/or concerned, please attend the meeting or speak to one of the Finance Committee members.  We do not anticipate any imminent changes being proposed to the Congregation for approval but want to start the dialog just in case.                

 

January Board Meeting Highlights

  • Finance committee will review 2006 budget to suggest potential cuts after 2005 ends in deficit
  • Reviewed proposal to change Lighted Chalice schedule; requesting feedback from congregation
  • Building committee chair needed to replace Eric Thiel
  • Assistant treasurer needed to replace Janice Thiel
  • Long range planning committee members needed
  • Membership levels under consideration            
  • Internal audit committee needs one more member
  • Pursuing "right of first refusal" with Red Cross for their facility
  • Complete minutes can be found at https://uufolks.org/groups/board/minutes

 

Church mouse – Charles Coley & Elizabeth Sternke.
This month’s Church Mouse award goes to the Charles Coley and Elizabeth Sternke for their efforts in coordinating the Intergenerational Christmas Pageant. A warm and rewarding time was had by young and old alike.     

 


Minister on Sabbatical

This article ran in the Lighted Chalice in August 2005 and we are rerunning with some clarifications so that we can be on the same page.  In congregational communication – repetition is the soul of wit.

New opportunities have arisen for our minister to continue her professional scholarship - specifically, her study of Jenkin Lloyd Jones - through the Doctor of Ministry Program at Meadville /Lombard Theological School in Chicago and in her own independent study.

Hilary has been eligible for sabbatical during this, her sixth year of service. As of August 2005, she was eligible for five months of sabbatical.

She requested two months of leave, during November 2005 and February 2006.

The remaining months of her sabbatical have not been scheduled at this time.

This will be in addition to the Study/Vacation leave that she is annually due (usually taken in small bits and in the summer – but this time concentrated in January and July).  The Board was happy to give this to her for the benefit of her studies and for the history of our movement.

During this study leave, she will be available for emergencies such as death or impending death, family or personal crisis, severe illness, hospitalization, arrest, etc. You may contact her or receive help through:

Church Secretary—Karin Bergman, 742-0460, uuc@uulafayette.org

Pastoral Care Group:

Cheryl Fowler

Mary Ann Foley

Committee on Ministry:

Herschel Lewis

Beverly Seese

Ruth Ann Ferris 

Joan Marshall (chair)

Board Chairs:

Robin & Dianna Poindexter    dianna1@wildmail.com

Noemi Ybarra  nybarra@dcwi.com 

Barny Dunning   jdunning@purdue.edu


 

New Co-Chairs for New Space Committee

We have new Co-chairs for the New Space Committee - Alanna Steffen and Steve Nelson!  

They plan to schedule an informational meeting for the congregation sometime soon - hopefully in February or March - to share with the congregation what is happening and what we need to do next. 


Editors propose change in newsletter publication schedule

 “The Lighted Chalice” continues to be an important and effective means of communication for our congregation. For as long as any of us can remember, the newsletter has been published on a once every-two-weeks schedule. We (the newsletter editors) would like to propose that we move to a once-a-month schedule. The primary reasons for this proposed change are:

1. Cost savings—we estimate (roughly) a potential cost savings of about $1,000/year.

2. Savings in staff time—the already overworked secretary will gain two or more hours per month with the proposed change.

3. Savings in volunteer time—each issue requires approximately 20 hours or more of volunteer effort.

4. Growth in alternative methods for church communication—in recent years, new ways of sharing news and communicating with and among the congregation have developed, including: church website, e-mail, and the Sunday Order of Service. The newsletter now often contains announcements repeating what already reaches the congregation in other timely ways.

Additional notes and comments:

This would obviously be a major change for the congregation. We propose that we try the new monthly schedule for a year and then re-evaluate.

Although we have not taken a survey, we know anecdotally that a monthly newsletter schedule is common among churches.

Some people have asked whether members could choose whether to receive their newsletter in print or by e-mail. This raises many questions, such as: Who would prepare the e-newsletter? Would this cause additional work for the church secretary in terms of gathering and maintaining additional information in the database (re: who gets it by e-mail and who gets it by postal mail)? An additional concern is the fact that we must have 200 pieces of mail to qualify for bulk mail rates. Perhaps an alternative would be to send announcements by e-mail when needed, to everyone who is on the newsletter mailing list and who has e-mail.

There may be other issues, concerns, and questions relating to this proposal. The Board Trustees and the editors invite you to share comments, questions and concerns. Please contact any one of us, or e-mail lightedchalice@yahoo.com. The Board will be considering the proposal at the Feb. 14 meeting. 

Newsletter editors:

Lynn Holland

Nancy Patchen

Kaye McSpadden

 


 

UU History trivia.

Our congregation began in 1949 when a group of 15 people met in the homes of members to establish a Unitarian Fellowship.

 


Outdoor Group Meeting at Celery Bog

The Outdoor Group is planning a walk through and around the Celery Bog for Sunday, Jan. 29.  We'll meet at the Bog parking lot at 1:30 p.m.  Trails include paved, grass and mulch/stone.  Dogs are of course always welcome and children are a lovely addition. We'll walk as fast/slow as the group wants. If you have questions, contact Tandy Easler.

Hello Lovers of the Outdoors.  I hope you've all been able to enjoy someof this wonderful warm weather (even though I miss the snow, 60 degrees does feel great in January)!  If you need a walking partner during these lovely days and it's spur of the moment, call me, I'm home now with the baby and always looking to get outdoors.  Tandy

 


A quick reminder

This June our Annual General Assembly is in St. Louis, Missouri from Wednesday, June 21 through Sunday, June 25. 

General Assembly is close by – a short enough drive to be fun for a carpool event! 

It’s a great way to feel more engaged in the larger community of Unitarian Universalists – fun, educational, and renewing.  I know that many of you have been to St. Louis – but I have always longed to visit there – so “Meet me in St. Louis !” 

Please look on line for further information – registration can happen on line as well – just check for timing at http://www.uua.org/ga/

 


Caregiver’s Support Group Meets Monthly

If you are caring for a partner, spouse, child, parent, family member, or friend facing a chronic or terminal health issue, you need support, too.  This small, confidential group provides a safe place to share the challenge of ongoing caregiving and receive insight and support from others – whose challenges are not exactly the same – but whose insights may prove useful.  Each month group members remark on how helpful it is to share the puzzles, lessons, joys, and the struggles of caregiving.  The group meets at the church on the fourth Tuesday of the month.  If you are interested in this group you can also call the minister for further information.

 


Book Group

7 p.m., Monday, February 13, 2006
        “Getting Our Breath Back” by Shawne Johnson

7 p.m., Monday, March 13, 2006
        “Bee Season” by Myla Goldberg

The Book Group meets on the 2nd Monday of every month at 7pm at Borders Bookshop in Wabash Landing in the lounge area where it joins with  Panera’s.  All are welcome to join us for discussions of books selected by participants. 

For more information contact Dagmar Murray.


 

Help Wanted

The Pastoral Care Group is currently in need of new members. We have recently lost Dixie Hermiller, due to her move to Indianapolis , and Dorthy Lounsbury due to death.

The purpose of the Pastoral Care Group is to help the minister in her care of the congregation. We meet on the third Wednesday of each month at 11:30 a.m. 

During those meetings, we check on the health and well-being of congregational members and take actions that seem appropriate.  These may include sending greeting cards, visiting the sick, taking meals to families, sending flowers or balloons or fruit baskets, giving rides to the doctor, providing emergency child care, or planning and coordinating a reception after a memorial service. 

Every attempt is made to protect the privacy of individuals in need who wish to quietly cope with their personal problems.

Several years ago, the Pastoral Care Group decided to abandon the practice of circulating get-well or sympathy cards for signing after the worship service. With the growth of the congregation, it was sometimes difficult to find people who actually knew the recipient of the card. 

Some congregants have missed this practice, but please rest assured that cards from the church are being sent.  Concerned congregants are also urged to send personal cards independently or help out as seems appropriate to the situation.

The Pastoral Care Group also has been responsible for setting up the neighborhood groups, which are now undergoing some fine-tuning by some of our resident computer experts.  The key contact persons in each neighborhood group alert congregants of those nearby who could use some congregational support. They also serve as a phone tree for getting emergency information out to the congregation.

If you would be interested in joining the Pastoral Care Group, or if you know of a situation that could benefit from some pastoral care, please contact one of the following committee members:

      Malcolm Easler  

      Mary Ann Foley  

      Cheryl Fowler  

      Amy French  

      Hilary Krivchenia  

      Rosemary Leary  

      Lynn Richardson  


MCL Dinner Group

All are welcome to drop in at MCL Cafeteria in West Lafayette on any
Thursday evening, when UUs gather for casual conversation over
dinner. The group varies in size from 4 to 16, and gathers in the lobby
at MCL. Then starts down the "line" at approximately 5:45 p.m. (new time).

 


Have Truck to Lend?

“HELP!  I’ve wasted $50 of UU Church money having a ladder delivered, tall enough to reach the sanctuary ceiling.  I would like to borrow a pick-up truck to complete some church errands on occasion (stick shift preferred).  Please contact Patty Wood.  

 

 


You Have Big Hearts for "Change"!

The response to the Social Action initiative "Change for Change" has been wonderful! Bringing your loose change on Sunday and putting it in the offering plate can help make a "change" in our community for children and families! The sound of your change jingling in the offering plates on Sunday mornings is the sound of generous hearts.

We collected $64.67 in only the first two weeks with this past Sunday not being counted as of the newsletter deadline.

We will continue this month collecting for Early Head Start and Head Start.
                        

Lynn Richardson, Social Action Committee member, Social Action Family and Children Subcommittee chair


 

 

Religious Education Happenings 
 

RE Co- Directors Sarah Boulac and Michele Tomarelli

Last weekend, Charles Coley, Chris Falley, and Linda Temple-Sandison attended training in Columbus, Ohio to become trained in Kindergarten – 1st Grade and 4th – 6th Grade OWL facilitation. 

With our facilitators fresh from their training, we look forward to expanding our OWL offerings and beginning classes for these groups in the very near future.  Stay tuned for more information about scheduling!

Our Whole Lives (OWL) is a series of sexuality education curricula that were written together by the UUA and the United Church of Christ Board for Homeland Ministries.  Through these curricula, accurate and age appropriate information is offered in effort to "help participants to clarify their values, build interpersonal skills, and understand the spiritual, emotional, and social aspects of sexuality."

Curricula are available not only for Grades K-1 and 4-6, but also for Grades 7-9, 10-12 and Adults.  We offer OWL for 7th – 9th graders every other year and you can look for it again next year (2006-2007).

We are also exploring the addition of 10th – 12th Grade OWL.

The Kindergarten – 1st Grade OWL class consists of eight sessions plus a parent meeting and parent/child orientation.  This class is designed to "support parents in educating children about birth, babies, bodies and families… [and] promote dialogue between parent and child."

While the curriculum and training for the upper elementary grades targets 4th through 6th grades, the class is intended to include either 4th and 5th graders, or 5th and 6th graders (or a single grade) depending on the needs of the congregation.  It has not yet been decided which age range we will target in our congregation. 

This class consists of eight sessions plus a parent meeting and "participants [will] learn about and discuss the physical and emotional changes of puberty…. and examine topics such as values and sexuality, communication and decision making."

The RE Committee is very excited to offer these very important classes and we are grateful to Charles, Chris, and Linda for taking the time to attend this training and make these classes available to our congregation.  I encourage parents of Kindergarten – First Graders and Fourth – Sixth Graders to get in touch with either Michele or me to let us know if your interest. 

More information about scheduling will be coming soon.  In the meantime, feel free to ask me your questions, check out http://www.uua.org/owl/, or contact one of our freshly trained facilitators!

 

~ Sarah

Announcements:

 

* Please note that Sarah Boulac is experiencing technical difficulties and, for the time being, is best reached by phone.

Communications not requiring a timely response can be sent by email.

 

* Our RE Classes are in need of snacks and juice! Donations of low-sugar non-perishable snacks (less than 10 grams of sugar) and apple juice can be left in the kitchen with a note "For RE."  Our Nursery is in need of donations of Cheerio-type cereal, graham crackers, and bottled water.  These donations can also be left in the kitchen.

 

* Guest At Your Table Boxes can be returned to the box in the back of the sanctuary through January 29.  They will be counted after that date with the total reported in the following Lighted Chalice.

Remember to make checks payable to the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee and fill out the form on the top of the box.

 

RE Teacher schedule:

 

January 29th

Preschool Teacher: A. Dooley

Preschool Helper:  K. Reynolds

K-1 Class: K. Harden

2-4 Class:  K. Coder

 

February 5th

Preschool Teacher:  TBD

Preschool Helper:  TBD

K-1 Class:  TBD

2-4 Class:  K. Coder



                            


Sunday Morning Forum

The Sunday Morning Forum meets at 9 a.m. in the Red Cross Building across the parking lot from the church. Everyone is welcome! Childcare is provided.         

Between 50 and 60 people came to Forum last Sunday to hear Eric and Janice Thiel offer their farewell to the group and describe something of their future in Oregon. Many took this opportunity to express appreciation for the various contributions that the Thiels have made to our lives. Comments ranged from Janice’s singing to Eric’s patient listening.

It has been five months since our television screens were filled with pictures of New Orleans flood victims stranded on roof tops and waiting at the sports dome for a long delayed rescue. The New Yorker reported that "…the water covering the citiy's streets had become an opaque, semi-gelatinous brew of sewage, fluids leaked from submerged cars, and bodies of rodents, cats, dogs, and people."

Thirty-one people plucked from this morass of filth, terror and desperation have landed in the Twyckenham Apartments. They have found an unfamiliar world that is cold, strange and isolating. Forum is devoting the next series of meetings to understanding better the plight of the Katrina families among us.

January 29 "Needs of Local Katrina People." Lauren Conway.Lauren Conway, a leasing agent for the Twyckenham Apartments, has been closely involved with the relocation of the Katrina families living at Twyckenham .

February 5 "What Can We Offer the Katrina Famlies?" Sue Robinson.

Sue is the Chair of the Social Responsibility Committee of the Church. Can and should our church help the Katrina families by acting through our Social Action and Social Responsibility Committees? How can we more effectively respond to emergency situations such as the recent Katrina disaster?

February 12 "Should New Orleans be Rebuilt?" George Horwich, Professor Emeritus, Krannert School of Management. Professor Horwich will look at Hurricane Katrina from an economics perspective. In general, how should society prepare and respond to natural disasters? Who should bear the cost and responsibility for prevention and reconstruction? What are the optimal roles of state and local government, federal government, and the private sector?

                                                                                                    


 

LUM Report  

Current Needs for the Homeless Shelter:

Socks and more socks. Socks can be placed in the bag provided downstairs under the coat rack outside the kitchen in the back of the church. Also needed  are used inkjet cartridges. All brands are acceptable, except for Epson cartridges. Cartridges can also be placed in the sock bag inside a baggie or other protective container.


Public policy issues: Bills have been introduced in the state legislature to address low income energy assistance and identification issues. Many low income people have difficulty obtaining identification of various types due to their inability to produce a birth certificate.

 

Bills to address low income energy assistance:

HB 1303

HB 1081

HB 1284

SB 0352

SB 0216 & HB 1094

 

Bill to address identification issues:

HB 1053

Information on these bills can be obtained by going online to www.in.gov/legislative/  click on "Bills and Resolutions" then go to "list of "live" information for bills."

On Feb 11th the Purdue Crew team will hold a Row-A-Thon at the Tippecanoe Mall from 10:00 am to 9:00 pm. They will be collecting pledges, half the proceeds of which will benefit LUM's homeless shelter.

Stop by, and if you’re lucky, they may allow you to help with the rowing!

-Mary Finley, Social Responsibility Committee


Minister’s Muse     

I am grateful that the Board and the Committee on Ministry was willing to work out methods for me to engage in more study this year. 

By allowing me this time, the congregation contributes in a significant way to the larger movement of Unitarian Universalism.  I am grateful for this and will ensure that this congregation receives full recognition for this contribution. It only makes me want to work harder and better to reflect well upon the special people here.

It has been complicated to take this time – my own feelings have been mixed and congregational concerns have been very keen this year – losses and challenges distracting my heart and mind and new building possibilities coming to the fore again. 

Because this is such a pivotal time for the congregation – in which we are still discerning our directions regarding new building and enlarging our space – I planned to remain connected with the congregation in a way that will be slightly different than an ordinary sabbatical.  If you need details about this please contact the Committee on Ministry. 

In spite of being on this study leave the concerns of the congregation are not out of my mind – I suppose I ought to meditate more often… but I have had my attention called back by our losses and our challenges.  They are part of my life, my heart, my hopes and my dreams – yes – even my dreams….

I am not sure how long anyone can remain at turning point without getting dizzy – but last night I had a dream that we were moving ahead with our new building project.

It was a new member orientation and people were asking about the building project.  Perhaps I had the dream because I knew that Eric Thiel is leaving and left words that we must move ahead.  Perhaps it was the liveliness on the face of Alanna Steffen who, with Steve Nelson, is now co-chairing the New Building Committee. 

Perhaps it was because I had become aware of disheartenment in the congregation that we have not yet solved our space problems.  Perhaps it was because I had learned that the Red Cross building is coming available for sale. 

Perhaps it is because I am, myself, hopeful that we can move ahead – particularly when there is such energy, creativity, and activity in the congregation. I want us to move ahead and I want this congregation to take its rightful and active place in the centers of local vision and activism. 

Seldom has our time been so ripe – or the voice of liberal religion been so needed.  I am so proud to be associated with this congregation which speaks actively in the local paper and acts with such dedication in the local community – in so many areas. 

We are ready to move ahead.  The options are many – but it’s impossible to explore every one of them. There are countless delicious thoughts and perhaps a surfeit of cooks in the kitchen. Instead we can see what comes available to us, within the choices that the congregation made earlier in the year, and then to move with timeliness and wisdom. 

It is exciting that the Red Cross has presented an opportunity for us – it is a gentler bridge than we might have hoped for – toward whatever options await us in the future.

I turn back toward Jenkin Lloyd Jones now – he was a congregation builder who thought outside the box.  When his All Soul’s Church was ready to expand they built one of the first community-center style churches in the country. 

With his guidance, his nephew Frank Lloyd Wright, participated in part of the planning process of that building in Chicago (1905) – using many design ideas that would come to further expression in the building of Unity Temple in Oak Park in 1908.  Classrooms, gymnasium, worship hall, dining hall, social service spaces were all built under one roof. 

And he called it a Center – to announce to the world that it was a religious center, a social center, a center like the heart and soul are at the center of a person, and, he said, the center of a circle without circumference – a circle that would shut no one out.  Jones would have rejoiced in our many religious celebrations, our scientific discussions, our reading groups, and – especially – our increased social action. 

The Unitarianism he envisioned was far closer to the sort of Unitarian Universalism that we take for granted today – he would be cheering us on – to keep up the good work and giving one of his twinkling smiles to encourage us to step forward and help make more possible and broader – to give more space to  the work that we have begun.

—Hilary

                                                    


 

          

Lighted Chalice
Unitarian Universalist Church
17 S. 7th Street
Lafayette IN 47901-1637
E-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Home page:  http://www.uulafayette.org
Publication: Every other Thursday
Submission deadline: Preceding Sunday at noon

Send to: lightedchalice@yahoo.com

 

Minister: Rev. Hilary Landau Krivchenia
Phone: 742-0460;
minister@uulafayette.org 

Office hours: 

Tuesday 9 a.m.-noon
Thursday Noon-4 p.m.   
Also by appointment
 

Religious Education : Sarah Boulac
Phone: 742-0460 or 414-2432

Office hours: 10 a.m. - 2 p.m Tuesday & Thursday 

Secretary: Karin Bergman
Phone: 742-0460, e-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Office hours: 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Monday to Friday 

Board Co Chairs: Robin & Dianna Poindexter  Phone: 742-0460 

Editors:

Kaye McSpadden, Phone: 743-3634, kaye7m@aol.com

Nancy Patchen, Phone: 497-1259, nhmp@verizon.net

Lynn Holland, Phone: 583-2703,  holland@nursing.purdue.edu  

Webspinner: Dianna Poindexter,dianna1@wildmail.com  

 

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