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UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
West Lafayette, Indiana


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The Lighted Chalice
UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
Lafayette, Indiana ~ ~ February 10, 2005

Worship Schedule
Sunday Service at 10:30 a.m.
Childcare Available

 


 

February 27

"Slavery: Timeless Narratives"
Speaker: Hilary Landau Krivchenia
Choir Presentation: Keep Your Lamps Trimmed and Burning Brightly
Sharon McKnight, Noemi Ybarra, Linda Hicks: Follow the Drinking Gourd
Sound: Kevin Sondgeroth
Piano: Lisa Drake

 


 

March 6

Women's History
Speaker: Hilary Landau Krivchenia
Sound: Eric Thiel
Piano: Lisa Drake


 

 

March 13

Mental Illness/Social Wellness
Speaker: Hilary Landau Krivchenia
Sound: Noemi Ybarra
Piano: Kaye McSpadden

 

 

Next Newsletter  Deadline:

Sunday, March 6, 2005 NOON 

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This issue was prepared by Lynn Holland


 

Notes from the Board of Trustees

The Board of Trustees wishes to announce a change in its meeting times.

In the interests of getting our members home at a reasonable hour, we will begin our meetings at 6:30 instead of 7 p.m.

As always, Board meetings are open to any members or friends who wish to attend.  If you wish to introduce a topic or bring an issue before the Board, please contact one of the Chairs (Noemi Ybarra, Robin & Dianna Poindexter, Gary Fowler) or another Board member, prior to the meeting to be added to the agenda.

We meet on the second Tuesday of each month.

      Also:

The registration materials for the 2005 District Annual Meeting have gone into the mail and will soon be here. They are also up on the District website, www.heartlanduu.org, for those who prefer to register online and pay by credit card.

This major Heartland District event, to be held in Cincinnati over the weekend of April 8-10, will offer exciting innovations in serving congregations this year.  I'd like to encourage attendance for any of our leaders and for all who are interested in sharing, learning, and networking with other congregations.

                                    --Noemi Ybarra, Board Chair

 

 


 

Caring Cans Sunday a Success!

15 bags of peanut butter and jelly and other food items were taken to the LUM Food Pantry at St. John's church.  This was the most successful food drive in several years.  Thank you, thank you!!!

Once again the Social Responsibility Committee asks you to participate in the first Sunday of March food collection. Please let your children participate! For March we are asking for contributions of diabetic or sugar free non-perishable food items.  I was told last Sunday that one of the youth in our congregation is diabetic and most excited that our church contributes diabetic foods. Our efforts are most appreciated.

We hope to have the children place the food items in the baskets at the front of the sanctuary as they leave for RE classes on March 6.

Of course, any non-perishable food items are acceptable and can also be placed in the designated box at the side door downstairs anytime.

                                          --Sue Robinson

 


Lost and Found

Please help us keep our church clean!  Mary Ann Foley and Sue Robinson have been trying to monitor the kitchen and back hall under the stairway since before the Art Fair.  Our church secretary and Hilary pick up every day and this isn't their responsibility.  Items often appear and are never removed.  Please look to see if you have left something.

 

·        Back hall: Many items left from the Art Fair.

·        The baskets above the coat rack in the back hall: Some lost and found cups, etc.  Clothing on the coat racks.

·        Kitchen: Casserole dish, divided relish tray, miscellaneous.

·        Front hall: Christmas tree.

 

If you bring it to church, please remove it when you leave unless it is a donation. If it is a donation, please speak to someone about the need for the items.  Thanks for your help!

                                                            --Sue Robinson

 

A Night at the Auction -- A huge success!

Many, many thanks to all who contributed to the success of the 2005 Service and Talents Auction. A grand total of $7,000 was raised for the congregation. Every item donated was sold, from vacation properties to cookies and everything in between.

Special thanks to those who helped with set-up -- Dennis Kovar, Dan Lybrook, and Kirsten Reynolds -- and to Amy French for her help the night of the auction. And thanks, too, to Eric Thiel, our sound engineer that evening.

We appreciate the services of Jim Van Schepen, our auctioneer, who donated his time and talents to make the evening a success.

And finally, we want to thank everyone who donated items for sale. From the RE Classes to kids who donated babysitting and car washes to the adults who gave of themselves, we are deeply touched by your gifts. And the generosity of the big spenders who came and purchased items; without you, the evening would not have been possible.

Hope this has not left anyone out -- and thanks to all for a wonderful event!

--Cindy Gerlach-Mueller, Cheryl Fowler, JoAnn Darling, Lisa Pantea and

Edie Pierce-Thomas, the 2005 auction committee

 


 

Observations on the Consultants

Our Heartland District consultants met with the congregation to finish the first phase of Conflict Engagement and Right Relations work on Sunday, Jan. 30, after the worship service. 

We had a good turnout of members and friends. We participated in a dialogue exercise which introduced us to Appreciative Inquiry, a method of approaching dialogue.  The consultants also presented us with a summary of the information they gathered on their previous visit, and suggestions on work we might do in 12 general areas.

In the weeks since, I have heard (and made) comments along the lines of, "Why didn't they tell us what to do to solve ___?", "I wish they had given us more concrete recommendations", and "What did we gain?"

In one recent conversation, when I expressed a wish that they had given us clear steps that we could follow, a wise fellow congregant postulated that perhaps the consultants understood that this was OUR work to do.

This made me pause to remember what it was we set out to do. We did

NOT expect, or even ask, the consultants to solve our problems. We did not even ask them to show us how to solve them. We asked them to gather information and help us to learn more about conflict engagement and right relations.

As with any group of human beings, we will always have problems, conflicts, disagreements.  What we need - what we asked for - is a basic framework within which we can work in a healthy, loving way to engage those issues.  How do we discuss contentious issues and still show respect for one other? 

How do we approach each other with care and concern as we try to resolve problems?  How will we treat our fellow congregants when we disagree with them?

This is the work that is before us now.  Our consultants gathered much information, and distilled it into a relatively short document. They introduced us to some ideas on engagement.  The next steps are ours.

                                                Noemi Ybarra, Board Chair 

 


 

Come Discuss the Restructure of Program Council

Program Council as it was originally structured might have made some people feel that their voices have not been heard.

All members and friends are invited to attend this important meeting. Let’s work together to ensure that Program Council is a vehicle for communication as well as an essential piece of the church structure.

Robin Poindexter will facilitate this meeting Thursday, March 31, from 6:30 to 8 p.m. upstairs at the church.


 

Share Your Opinion on New Building Project

The congregation has reached a turning point in our efforts to find a church home suitable for our current family and for growth.

The vote taken last Sunday was one step in the process. Options for the next steps were identified at the January and February congregational meetings.

If you were not at the February meeting, we would like your input as to the attractiveness of the options identified so far. We realize that none have been fully explored and explained in detail – at this point we are interested in your opinion as to which of the options should be investigated more thoroughly. 

Please rank the options that are listed below. There are spaces to write additional options.  Give a ranking of “1” for the option that you favor the most at this point, a rank of “2” for the next best option, etc. 

If you think a particular option is not worth further consideration, leave it blank. We will tabulate this straw vote by giving a high score to options ranked highest on each ballot, and low scores to options ranked low. Options left blank will be given no score from that particular ballot.

 

______            Re-do the existing design for the Union Street building as a smaller building, resulting in a plan closer to our budget.

 

______            Change to a completely new design for the Union Street property, with an eye for both affordability and other changes in design.

 

______            Look throughout the community for a different property that we could buy with the money that we have raised.  This could be a property on which we could build more affordably, or an existing structure.

 

______            Explore whether there is a congregation in an existing building with whom we could share facilities, as we increase our building fund.

 

______            Develop a plan to stay at our existing building on Seventh Street at least for the short term. The plan could either enable the congregation to fit more comfortably into our space with our current size, or allow for reasonable growth.  It is anticipated that the plan would probably involve purchase / use of nearby properties.

 

______            Other option ________________________________________________

 

                        ___________________________________________________________

 

 

______            Other option ________________________________________________

 

                        ___________________________________________________________

 

When completed, please return this ballot to the church through the mail, or place it in the New Building Committee mailbox. 

 

 


Participate in the Heartland Annual Meeting April 8-10

 

This year’s District Annual Meeting is nearby – in Cincinnati--on  April 8-10.

 The theme “Gather in Spirit” will set the tone for a weekend of sharing, exploring, and learning. Exciting workshops, worship and social activities, and important business discussions will take place. You can find complete information online at www.heartlanduu.org, including a brochure you can print out. You can even register online!  Otherwise, watch the back of the sanctuary for brochures and registration forms soon.

Don’t miss this opportunity to gather with other UUs from across our three-state district. If you are interested in attending, please inform the Board (we are allowed to send four voting delegates).

The District meeting is a great opportunity to meet with other Unitarian Universalists in the district and learn more about what other congregations are doing. 

This year our congregation is thinking about also providing a half-day visit to the National Underground Railroad Freedom Center in Cincinnati.  A group of willing adults would accompany interested children and young people on the tour while others could attend the Saturday sessions.  If you are interested in this idea, please contact Sarah Boulac at 742-0460. 

Registration materials for the 2005 District Annual Meeting have gone into the mail to key persons in every congregation and are up on the District website, www.heartlanduu.org, for those who prefer to register online and pay by credit card. 

Hope to see you in Cincinnati. And perhaps in Fort Worth for the General Assembly. The District Assembly is closer, smaller, but it is a small taste of the banquet of useful information and exciting connections you can find at our General Assemblies in June.

 

 


Warning About Scam

I (Noemi Ybarra) received this message via email last week, forwarded by the

Heartland District office: 

"From the Clifton Unitarian Church:  Yesterday, I received a phone call from one of the Board members from the UU church in Hopkinsville, KY, who reported that she had taken a call the night before from someone claiming to be Todd Eklof, the minister at our church, Clifton Unitarian in Louisville. 

The caller stated that he needed $70 for a congregant that was stranded in her area, and needed to get to Louisville to meet with a loved one that was gravely ill in the hospital.  The caller stated that the Hopkinsville church would be reimbursed by the Louisville church.

 She was just about ready to buy into the call, when the caller mistakenly used some language which gave her serious doubts about the caller's authenticity. 

I'm writing to you to see if we can notify other UU churches of this phone scam, so they don't get taken in."

"This UU in Trouble scam is a variation of a scam that has been going around the country for several years and has occasionally succeeded in getting money from leaders in UU congregations.  The version reported below from our UU Church of Hopkinsville used the name of the Rev. Todd Eklof, minister of our CliftonUnitarian Church in Louisville.  

Please alert your staff and lay leaders not to be taken in by such stories and not to provide any funds to the caller.

 

Barbara Hamilton
Office Administrator
Heartland District of the UUA

    


Social Responsibility Committee

 

  • LUM's Patti O'Callaghan reported success in the House passing a permanent EITC (Earned Income Tax Credits) bill, along with great success in helping clients file for income tax refunds.  At present, 160 families have filed, with refunds totaling $210,000. Patti reminds us of the need to contact our representatives for important social action bills, including two in progress that would remove sales tax on fuel for low-income clients. 
     
  • Also, if you would like to receive legislative alerts for federal issues, give Patti your email address.
     
  • On the LUM calendar, summer camp will be held August 8-12 at Hanging Rock Camp.  Counselors are needed: call Joe Micon (423-2591) to volunteer.
     
  • The Hunger Hike is September 18: contact Patti O'Callaghan for further information, 423-2691.
     
  • Jubilee Christmas is scheduled for December 10.
     
  • In addition to summer camp counselors, volunteers are needed to distribute clothing from Dignity You Wear on a Friday evening and during the day Saturday at a date shortly after Easter.  Contact Mary Anderson for further information, 423-2691.
     
  • Finally, meals are needed for the Shelter, along with ongoing donations of coffee, sugar, socks, combs, and paper towels (please, no clothing).

                                                      --Phyllis Day

      

 


Outdoor Group Plans Outing

The Outdoor Group is planning a hike to NICHES's Weiler-Leopold Nature Reserve in Warren County on Sunday, Feb. 27th after church. 

Please bring along a packed lunch, we'll carpool from church for those interested.  See Tandy Easler for more information. 

This 179-acre property on the Wabash River in eastern Warren County includes open oak savannas, wooded slopes, old fields dotted with boulders deposited by glaciers in millennia past, 100 acres of bottomlands returning to forest after the planting of 30,000 trees in May of 2000, and a 12-acre grassland area being restored to native tallgrass prairie. Walks through these areas are most conveniently begun from the parking lot at the northeast corner of the property. Birds and mammals abound. Many special plants have also been found and more are being discovered each year now that fire, in the form of controlled burns in the savanna and prairie areas, has returned to reduce the competition from aggressive and nonnative invaders.

The Reserve is named after its former joint owners, the families of  Emanuel Weiler, who was the founding dean of Purdue's School of Management and of the Krannert Graduate School, and of A. Carl Leopold, an internationally known plant physiologist and son of the renowned naturalist Aldo Leopold. It was acquired in 1999 with the support of the Indiana Heritage Trust, the Roy Whistler Foundation, the Sycamore Audubon Society, the Weiler, Leopold, and Sanna families, and nearly two hundred additional individuals, families, groups, and businesses.

 


 

New UU and You Class Starting

The Greeting and Membership Committee invites you to the "New UU and You" class.

Learn about our history, principles, mission, and diversity.

Get to know our congregation through discussion, fellowship and good food. Child Care provided.

The two-hour classes will be offered EITHER: 

  • Sundays, after church: April 3, 10, 17, & 24 (a light lunch will be served)

OR

  • Sunday evenings: April 3, 10, 17, & 24 (hors d'oeuvres and dessert will be served)

 

Please register on sign-up sheet at the back of the church.  Popular demand will determine time scheduled.
 


 

Book Group
 

7 p.m., Monday, March 14, 2005
        “Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America” by Barbara Ehrenreich


7 p.m., Monday, April 11, 2005
        “The Curious Incident of the Night-Time Dog” by Mark Haddon

The UU Book Group meets on the second Monday of every month at 7 p.m. at Borders Bookshop in Wabash Landing in the lounge area where it joins with Panera’s. All are welcome to join us for discussions of books selected by participants. 

For more information contact Dagmar Murray

 


 

Mark the Date for Retreat!

The UUC all church retreat date has been set and we have reserved the 'A' frame at Ross Camp for Aug 12-14th, 2005. Please mark your calendars for this annual event that brings our community together with outdoor activities, workshops and other opportunities to get to know each other.

More details will follow in spring, when we start planning.

 


 

“Sacred Choices" Film & Discussion

The Indiana Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice (IRCRC) will sponsor a showing and discussion of the film, "Sacred Choices: 10 New Things to Think About Abortion," on Tuesday, March 8 from 7 to 8:45 p.m. at the West Lafayette Public Library.

This 57-minute documentary shows that, contrary to popular belief, most faith groups are NOT anti-choice. This event is free and all are welcome. Several of the founding members of IRCRC are UUs, and the Unitarian Universalist Association is a member of the national RCRC organization. For more information go to www.ircrc.org or call Kaye McSpadden at 743-3634.

 


 

Women's Retreat Offered in Brown County

"Singing Ourselves Home," a 24-hour women's retreat, will be held May 6-7 at the Waycross Retreat Center in Brown County. Part of the retreat will be facilitated by Marytha Paffrath and Susan Robbins of the vocal group Libana.

In addition, there will be discussion about the possibility of forming a district Women and Religion Committtee. Cost of the retreat is $100 before March 1 and $110 by April 15. Maximum number of participants is 60, so get your registration in soon! For more information contact Ruellen Fessenbecker 812-837-9550 or rfessenb@indiana.edu.

                                          Kaye McSpadden, Denominational Connections

 

 


 

HHighlights from Congregational Meeting of 13 February 2005

Barny Dunning gave a brief re-cap of the information provided in recent weeks about the progress of the Union Street building project. 

Due to a significant difference between the amount that we had budgeted for the project and the estimated cost of the project, the New Building Committee and the Finance Committee had recommended to the Board that we not go ahead with the current plan.  

The Board concurred and took these recommendations to the Congregation.  A motion was made and seconded not to release the design for bidding. Motion passed. 

Some options for how to proceed from here had been offered for consideration at a previous meeting, and these were reviewed briefly. A straw vote on these options had been suggested, and there was discussion about the how much influence such a vote would have. 

It was explained that the purpose was to get a very general idea of what people’s thoughts were at this time, and that those not attending the meeting would also be provided an opportunity to vote via a ballot in the Lighted Chalice. 

Meeting attendees (not necessarily members, but anyone who felt that they had a stake in the future of this church) then ranked the options on a written ballot and turned them in.  These will be considered over the next few weeks. 

 


 

Religious Education Happenings

 
Religious Education Director: Sarah Boulac
RE Committee Co-Chairs: Beth Misner, Cheryl Fowler

                                                                                                                                                                                               

It’s the time of year when we are ready to burst out of our winter quarters and explore the wonders of spring. Soon we will be leaving our jackets in the closet and basking in the warm sun. It’s time to rejuvenate, and many families might be starting to wonder what they are going to do during these warming spring and summer months? 

A few options for exploration and growth are coming up that I want to share with you: 

  • Junior High Youth Conference will be held from March 18 to 20 in Indianapolis.  This “SitCon” will include workshops such as learning UU Games and exploring your spirituality through clay. Registration is $30 and is due by March 10. Adults interested in chaperoning and youth interested in attending should contact Beth Misner at 538-2214.
  • Our Heartland District Annual Meeting is coming up on April 8  to 10.  This gathering of UU Churches in our district will take place in Cincinnati, OH. This opens the door to another opportunity to visit the National Underground Railroad Freedom Center in Cincinnati (www.freedomcenter.org) on Saturday as a group.  We are looking for chaperones and taking sign ups from individuals and families.  See the flyer on the RE Bulletin Board or talk with Sarah Boulac, DRE.
  • Our own UU Summer Camp for children…stay tuned for details.
  • The Lake Geneva Summer Assembly will take place from July 3 – 9.  There is a large selection of workshops from which to choose including programming for children and youth. 
  • There are additional camps for adults and or youth are held at locations further from our district such as The Mountain in Highlands, North Carolina and Star Island off the coast of Portsmouth, NH. 

I am keeping an eye out for more opportunities and will keep you posted as I receive more information.  Please get in touch if you would like any additional information about these events.   

~ Sarah

 

Teacher Schedule

                                                Feb. 27                                    March 6 

Caterpillar Teacher                   TBD                                        E. Lautzenhiser

Caterpillar Helper                     TBD                                         F. Lautzenhiser 
                      
Butterfly Class                          D. Murray                                 B. Misner

2-3 Class                                 K. Coder                                 K. Schroth

4-5 Class                                 M. Krivchenia                          M. Krivchenia

6-8 Class                                 V. Thomas                               L. Grauerholz

 

 

Upcoming Events

 

  • Child and Youth Dedications – Dedication ceremonies for children and youth will be a part of our Earth Day Intergenerational Service on April 17.  Families who are interested in having their child/ren dedicated in this special service should contact Sarah Boulac, DRE or Rev. Hilary Krivchenia.
  • RE Teachers -   March 1 at 4 p.m. we will have a speaker from Greater Lafayette Special Services here to discuss learning and behavioral accommodations for special needs children.  March 5 will be our annual teacher breakfast from 9:30 to 11:30 a.m.  We will explore our multiple intelligences and how to be welcoming to all learners. Please RSVP to Sarah Boulac, DRE, at sboulac@hotmail.com or 414-2432.

 

Attendance:

Feb. 13 - 25 children/youth & 11 adults

Feb. 20 - 31 children/youth & 10 adults

 


 

Sunday Morning Forum

The Sunday Morning Forum meets at 9 a.m. in the Red Cross Building across the parking lot from the church. Everyone is welcome! Childcare is provided.                         

           

February 27

"The Veterans History Project" Susan Brouillette.

More than 4,500 oral histories have been collected in Indiana so far. These interviews account for one quarter of all interviews on file at the Library of Congress.

 

March 6.

"Terrorism: Its causes, effects and responses" Robin Poindexter, Coordinator.

Since 9/11 our society has changed remarkably as we strive to prevent future attacks. We will discuss this important and contemporary issue with one or more panelists of authority.


  

Minister’s Muse  

 

Every February I head to Madison, Wisconsin because it simply isn’t cold and snowy enough in the deep South of Lafayette, Indiana. 

Okay – that isn’t why! I come here because there is a mid-winter conference of Ministers, DREs, lay people, theological students and generally really interesting people who gather to explore a topic in depth with the guidance of some leaders in the particular field of study. 

In my time at all of these Winter Institutes I have had my consciousness raised, my paradigms shifted, and my fire fanned. I also enjoy the added gift of precious time with dear colleagues. But each year the topic is the main draw – and the main nourishment. 

And this year was no different.  I wished, as I often do, that I could bring the congregation with me – the learning experiences are profound. There is no way to share everything as I might like – but each year the learning integrates itself into my work and my sense of this ministry and deepens what I think that I have to offer. 

In spite of limitations there is much that can be shared – over time. The presenters this year were Connie Barlow, a scientist in the field of evolution (and a Unitarian Universalist), and Michael Dowd, a former United Church of Christ minister. The two of them live on the road – really – they live out of van and travel the country telling what they call “The Great Story.” 

In our Intergenerational Earth Day Service this year we will share a good bit about the Great Story – we each know bits of it – it is our story – the epic of 14 billion years of cosmic evolution that began at what has been called “the Big Bang” but what Connie and Michael call “the Great Radiance” because that was what it really was – a cosmic radiance.

For some years I have felt that Unitarian Universalists have a unique gift to offer the world in terms of our marriage of science and religion and our celebration of evolution – not simply as a theory of origins but as an explanation for the way that the world is -- that we are – ever-evolving creatures on an-ever evolving world in an ever-evolving cosmos. 

There is much Good News in this and Connie and Michael have found strong, meaningful ways of sharing this good news and stimulating our human ability to reconnect with our scientifically grounded and truly awesome Story. Rather than decrying the bad news that surrounds us – there is Good News – really great news to share. For theists and atheists, for scientists and mystics, for children and adults, for poets and scholars, the work of Barlow and Dowd is a gift of energy and focus and mission. 

While in Madison, I have also had the gift of spending time at the Wisconsin Historical Society – only a block from my housing.  I have been continuing my research into the life and work of Jenkin Lloyd Jones – the Unitarian minister who helped to plan the first Parliament of World’s Religion in 1893 – while he was a minister in Chicago.  

A sermon I did a couple of years ago about him caught the eye of someone who knew his family and I have been fortunate that his great granddaughter has been corresponding with me and is supportive of my passion for her special relative (many people bypass Jones for his most famous nephew – Frank Lloyd Wright – but I see a deeper architecture in the life of this hardworking and devoted minister and social activist).  

I have been a quick reader – and – even more – a rapid photocopier – as I copy genealogies, sermons, diary entries, family letters, and newspaper articles in the Archives.  

I am energized by these times of professional renewal and research and am eager to share with you some of my adventures through time and space.

 


 

          

Lighted Chalice
Unitarian Universalist Church
17 S. 7th Street
Lafayette IN 47901-1637
E-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Home page:  http://www.uulafayette.org
Publication: Every other Thursday
Submission deadline: Preceding Sunday at noon

Send to: lightedchalice@yahoo.com

 

Minister: Rev. Hilary Landau Krivchenia
Phone: 742-0460;
minister@uulafayette.org 

Office hours: 

Tuesday 9 a.m.-noon
Thursday Noon-4 p.m.   
Also by appointment
 

Religious Education : Sarah Boulac
Phone: 742-0460 or 414-2432

Office hours: 10 a.m. - 2 p.m Tuesday & Thursday 

Secretary: Kathy Louks
Phone: 742-0460, e-mail: uuc@uulafayette.org
Office hours: 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Monday to Friday 

Board Chair: Noemi Ybarra         Phone: 742-0460 

Editors:

Kaye McSpadden, Phone: 743-3634, kaye7m@aol.com

Nancy Patchen, Phone: 497-1259, nhmp@verizon.net

Lynn Holland, Phone: 583-2703,  holland@nursing.purdue.edu  

Webspinner: Dianna Poindexter,dianna1@wildmail.com  

 

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