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Seder
A
Sermon offered at the Unitarian Universalist Church
Lafayette, Indiana
April 8, 2001
by Rev. Hilary Landau Krivchenia
Readings
From the Song
of Solomon
Rise up,
my love, my fair one, and come away.
For now the winter is past, the rains are over and gone;
The flowers appear on the earth;
the time of the singing has come,
and the song of the dove is heard in our land;
LET THE
RIVER RUN (The New Jerusalem) by Carly Simon:
Silver cities
rise,
the morning lights
the streets that meet them,
and sirens call them on
with a song.
It's asking for the taking.
Trembling, shaking.
Oh, my heart is aching.
We're coming to the edge,
running on the water,
coming through the fog,
your sons and daughters.
We the great and small
stand on a star
and blaze a trail of desire
through the dark'ning dawn.
It's asking for the taking.
Come run with me now,
the sky is the color of blue
you've never even seen
in the eyes of your lover.
Let the river run,
let all the dreamers
wake the nation.
Come, the New Jerusalem.
And from Psalm
126:
When god restores
the exiles to Zion, it will seem like a dream. Our mouths will fill
with laughter and our tongues with joyous song. Then those who go
forth weeping, carrying bags of seeds, shall come home with shouts
of joy, bearing their sheaves.
Last week I
talked about the feast we may have here in this church – a feast
for the whole person – body, soul, mind, and heart. Often we, Unitarian
Universalists are people who seek this place because we’re hungering
for that feast and don’t want to settle for tasteless morsels. I
keep struggling with nourishment as a religious topic – about what
we seek here and what we share here. What are our deepest hungers
– the ones which when fed will satisfy and transform?
I was a vegan
caterer for a couple of years many years ago. Before that I had
worked in a macrobiotic restaurant. So I have long asked -- what
is truly both nourishing and delicious? What has just enough complexity
of flavor to awaken the senses without overpowering? And, most importantly,
what nourishment is it that will energize our beings? What nourishment
is it that will give us what we need to live full and deeply?
It is a
terrible thing that we live in a culture that creates hungers that
cannot be sated – cannot be sated because they are illusions.
This is
keenly on my mind right now because this is the first day of Passover
and this holiday – so centered on food and the hunger for it – has
been an active part of most of my life since early childhood. This
year was, for many reasons, not the year for us all to share a Seder,
though I would have loved to. It’s true that Sunday morning and
Passover seem like they may be odd partners. But let this morning
be my invitation that we share a Seder at sundown together next
year at this time. This year let me share with you some of the nourishment
that is there for us as Unitarian Universalists in this ancient
and mindful celebration.
Passover
is a feast and a ritual. The food is cooked and served rich with
meaning.
It’s is a time
to spend with family and friends – it is a ritual of great sharing.
It is a time to be mindful of connection and of belonging and to
remember that the deepest of life’s lessons are learned in the midst
of living – of eating, of singing. It is a celebration held in the
home, although it is often shared by congregations together. And
it’s centered around children – the seder is a time to continue
teaching the children the value of community, to teach the depth
of history, to teach the right to ask questions, and above all to
teach the difference between imaginary hungers and real ones.
When you
gather at the table there is a powerful feeling of connectedness
with everyone who is gathering around the world at the same time
– or during the same cycle of days. It is an extended sense of community,
of remembering who you are because you are connected– it’s
not a solitary ritual – it must be shared to be meaningful. Someone
once said that a solitary Jew is a contradiction in terms – I think
that the same could be said of Unitarian Universalists – we are
people of dialogue – we respond to one another.
The Heart of
the Seder is remembering – not only remembering an ancient story
but remembering and finding connections across miles as well as
years, across differences as well as across blood kinship. Connection
is the first nourishment on Passover.
As I’m
sure that you know, at the Seder table the Haggadah is opened and
the Story of the Exodus is told. And you may, also, know that there
isn’t one Haggadah – it’s told from many perspectives by many people
– I’ve attended vegan Seders where we are mindful of the suffering
of animals. I’ve attended lesbian and gay Seders where we’re mindful
of those who are oppressed because of their love. I’ve attended
feminist Seders where the reminder is not only of the oppression
of women but of the leadership of women that has been unsung in
the past. Every Seder seems to call forth as much history as it
can – the holocaust, stonewall, the silent spring.
The Haggadah
– which means narrative – is centered around one of the most powerful
stories of all time – one which has sustained oppressed people and
inspired freedom movements. It is a story in which generations of
people have heard their own freedom calling. So the story is told,
and those who are gathered listen to hear their own story in that
story and then to write their story into the ongoing narrative of
history. The short version, as it is told around the table is this:
once we were slaves, but now we are free. But that’s the short version
– the long version is considerably more controversial. For it is
the story of an angry God who punishes innocents and grants freedom
for a blood price. The Hebrew Bible is like any other book – filled
with the richness of human experience and open to inquiry. And this
is another place where Judaism and Unitarian Universalism meet again
and again – for we always have the right and, in fact the responsibility
to question and wrestle with the story, to use it as a warning and
not as a unexamined celebration. This story is too brutal
to celebrate – that God too vengeful and cruel. But we don’t have
to honor those acts – we are called to ask questions – to ask ourselves
to wrestle, yet again, with good and evil and to see them often
and horribly, in the same sweep of action. We are called to ask
ourselves how we would do better: there was deliverance and
we sit today enjoying the fruits of that deliverance – to ask ourselves
how we will do better.
At the
Seder four questions are asked by the youngest child who can read,
because the Seder is about teaching the children to ask questions.
It is less important what the questions are but it is vital that
there are questions. Chaim Stern in the Gates of Freedom Haggadah
says: "Asking leads to liberation and the right to ask is the
primary means to the liberation of mind and soul. The ability to
question is a precious gift: this parents must nurture in their
children." I like that because I believe that wisdom and critical
thinking only grow in the presence of questions. From the questions
grow insight. Abraham Heschel said it this way that "two sources
of religious thinking are given us: memory and personal insight.
We must rely on our memory and we must strive for fresh insight."
Passover is equally about these two.
Just so,
the flourishing of the community requires a balance of memory and
fresh insight. Both are sources of deep power and strength, both
can sources of great error and weakness. In our religious education
program here we recognize this – for it is the goal of our program
not to turn out fresh minds who think alike but to encourage fresh
minds who like to think. Coming of age in our tradition is to reach
that time when you can ask the tough questions, when you can join
the church because you decide to, when you can contribute to the
community with your own fresh insight. The fostering of memory and
insight are two further nourishments of the Seder. They make the
rest of the story one of hope and new life rather than of slavish
wandering.
For the
ancient children of Israel were given their freedom but found it
lying useless in their hands. Freedom is an easy word to use – as
Unitarian Universalists – members of a free church and of a free
faith -- we use it often and we claim it proudly. However, this
word carries so many different possible meanings –
Freedom to
choose
Freedom to
think
Freedom to
love
Freedom to
do anything I want
Freedom to
buy anything I want
Freedom to
breathe
Freedom from
harm
From oppression
From coercion
Freedom to
choose my work
Freedom to
choose my spouse
Freedom to
raise a child in safety and health
Freedom
So many different
possible uses that all of them – or any but the easiest – can be
blurred and lost.
Last week
I talked about the freedom that comes to those who are willing
to venture forth and to risk. But I also said that the willingness
to venture forth is nothing without vision. So it was that for forty
years the children of Israel wandered, lost and complaining, in
the desert. First they were hungry -- and they cried out against
Moses: "Would that we had died by the hand of the LORD in the land
of Egypt, when we sat by the fleshpots and ate bread to the full;
for you have brought us out into this wilderness to kill this whole
assembly with hunger." Then when they were given food, manna, they
alternated hoarded it and then wasted it. They ate manna until they
were tired of it. They were free but freedom was a tasteless ration
to them. They lacked vision -- they are wandering free in the desert
free after generations of crushing oppression and they are whining
about the accommodations and the service: no one lives with a story
like that because they aspire to wander whining in the desert –
but because it is what life does – Desmond Tutu wrote:
Liberation
is costly, Even after the lord had delivered the Israelites from
Egypt they had to bear the responsibilities and difficulties of
freedom. There was starvation and thirst and they kept complaining.
They complained that their diet was monotonous. Many of them preferred
the days of bondage and the fleshpots of Egypt."
They had lived
so long as slaves that the exercise of freedom was too new and unaccustomed.
A new generation had to be born that knew freedom. The exercise
of freedom can’t be developed rapidly under pressure – like any
huge shift it must be cultivated over time. To be nourished by freedom
you must understand that it is a meal you make yourself everyday.
Freedom
takes practice as well as vision. And the Seder is about the responsible
practice of freedom. It’s a hard and long won treasure and we have
our own Unitarian Universalist Exodus story, which I retell and
celebrate each year with my Seder. The short version is: we have
endured oppression but have remained strong.
In the mid
sixteenth century the area called Transylvania, which we now call
Romania, was home to a great flowering of reformed thought. In 1568
an edict of religious toleration was established there, sponsored
by the King, John Sigismund – the only Unitarian King in History.
A movement of Unitarians formed and they were able for a short time,
to declare that they believed in the wonder of the life of Jesus
who was man and not God. Sigismund also ruled Poland for a short
time. Unitarianism thrived on both sides. But when Sigismund died
and power switched hands in Poland it became harder for the Unitarians.
As the Catholic church reasserted itself the Unitarian churches
were outlawed. Initially they were offered the deal that by 1660
they could convert to Catholicism, leave the country, or die. For
a while the Unitarians attempted to engage the Catholic church in
discussion to reach some sort of accord. Somehow that went nowhere.
So, some Unitarians did convert and it is said that a few died in
conflicts and jails. Around 300 Unitarians headed out of Poland
on foot in 1660. The winter journey was harsh. Of all those three
hundred only about thirty survived to settle in Transylvania. These
were tough and determined people. Although they didn’t emerge into
a land of milk and honey they were able to survive hundreds of years
of struggle and oppression and the Unitarian Churches endure still
in Romania. No mighty hand of God, only the intent will of human
being. No miracles or dreams of utopia but a real and faithful passage
into a land where the work of freedom could continue down through
the ages. Freedom is not the end-product of a single dramatic struggle.
Another
nourishment of the Seder is learning and participating in the practice
of freedom. True freedom fills the soul – and leaves little room
for false hungers.
But the
Seder also makes use of hunger. I remember so many Seders when I’d
sit hungrily eyeing the eggs on the platter. Even the parsley. What
I wouldn’t have given for an extra egg to carry me through – but
the hunger itself is part of the learning of the Seder – part of
the communion. It is hard as child not to get the message – if they
endured slavery can I not endure hunger for a couple of hours? The
hunger is shared as much as the food. Perhaps more – for it is said
at every Seder – let all who are hungry come and eat, let all who
thirst come and drink. The door is left open for the prophet Elijah,
who is said to be the herald of redemption and reconciliation, and
in these days also there is often a cup for Miriam who lead the
people singing into freedom. The seder is a time to celebrate comfort
and freedom while remaining aware of all who hunger and are oppressed
-- of all who thirst and yearn for freedom. The nourishment of community
is expanded to include those who cannot sit down at the table. The
Seder is a meal to be shared just as freedom is a gift to be extended.
Finally,
after a night of singing and storytelling, after fasting and feasting,
after memory and insight everyone says "Next Year in Jerusalem."
But what is this place, this place that is claimed to be holy that
such violence is embedded into its history?
What is
this Jerusalem? I’ve never visited there. I’m sure that some of
you have – that you have seen the holy places, have seen the soldiers.
What is this Jerusalem?
Today is also
Palm Sunday – the day that Jesus is said to have ridden into Jerusalem
on an ass to fulfill a prophecy. The people greeted him along the
roadsides waving palm leaves. Jerusalem was his prize, too – the
city he circled and desired and dreaded. Whether the story is true
to the life of Jesus, what is true is that the city has been
a prize for generations. Is it the land of milk and honey? Is it
the city of freedom? Of earthly power? Carly Simon wrote:
let all the
dreamers wake the nation.. Come, the New Jerusalem – it has kindled
desires and fed dreams – but it has also sparked nightmares. It
has generation after generation cost so much life – it has too often
asked for the first born – as it does today.
And so I ask
is this a flaw in the Seder? How can we reverence a place over the
people working and struggling to live in it? How can we not see
our own faces in every others face? It must be false hunger that
generates violence over holy ground. The hunger of Passover and
the story that is told over and over must serve the purpose of teaching
and enlightening and that can only happen when the Seder is fresh
and alive – vigorous and rigorous – when the questions run deeper
and tougher, when we open the door to the prophet of redemption
and reconciliation and see that he is us and no other.
The New Jerusalem
can’t be a bone of contention – it can’t be a place on the map with
streets and stores – or if it is any place on the map it
must be every place -- every sacred inch of earth.
Growing
up I believed the Seder to be an open invitation – after all, the
story is in our western roots. And I still believe the Seder is
and should be an open invitation – may all who are hungry come and
eat, may all who thirst come and drink, may all who yearn for freedom
find those who will stand with them for freedom. The New Jerusalem
can only come to pass when the celebrations of freedom are both
nourishing and demanding – when they offer us sustenance and strength
and challenge us to use that strength for all.
Unitarian
Universalism is the ground we stand together upon – we are diverse
– Unitarian Universalist but also Christian, Jewish, Hindu, humanist,
Muslim, Buddhist, pagan… many visions and many origins meeting in
this place. The Passover that we would share says that the New Jerusalem
is a place in each of us and all of us. It is the place where all
of our traditions meet, where they find agreement and mutual affirmation,
where we find allies for the journey and helpmeets for the labor.
That is true holy ground where we seek freedom, peace, and true
nourishment for all. Perhaps our Sunday and Passover are not such
odd partners…
There are
hungers of the body and hungers of the spirit – hunger because people
live in suffering and isolation – hunger because people live without
vision and healing. We live with hungers of many kinds – and in
part it is a hunger inside each of us that calls us here. So let
this morning’s open invitation be a prayer also – that you each
that we each heed our wise and real hungers and are not tricked
by false ones. Let us together prepare the Seder that will mark
this as the place where people are truly preparing and feasting
on the most profound nourishment and renewal.
Therefore
let our hope be that Next Year the New Jerusalem will be here and
every place on earth.
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